Real, Vulnerable, and In-service to Your Relationships

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Couples Coaching with Karla and Richard (The Obies)


Begin a process to lean into an obstacle(s) or an issue(s) that may have you stuck. We provide a safe place for your relationship to flourish.
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Coaching With Richard 'OB'


I help brave men overcome stress and anxiety to have a great relationship with themselves first, and then with those they love.
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A Men's Retreat

The quality of our relationships determines our fulfillment in life. While research may lead us to believe this is true, it’s another thing to live it. In this retreat, you may discover ways for you to refine some aspects of your internal relationship and foster connection with others. You are the author of your story. We will take it seriously yet hold it lightly.

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Boutique Retreat

Have you always wanted to go on a couples’ retreat but can’t find the time?
Maybe you found just the right retreat, but it is being offered at a time you aren’t able to go.
 You want to spend quality
time with your partner but without all the other people.
We can help.
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Two Dudes: The Podcast

Sometimes guys need connection as well. A place where it is OK not to be OK. Richard Obernesser and Steve Schwasnick are your hosts.

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Michele and Steve S.

Karla and Richard have been part of our lives, both as a couple and individually, for well over 15 years providing us with support and nourishment for our relationship to one another and those around us. The foundation of the WeDO Relationships is one of love, mindfulness and self-awareness and the toolbox available to us to strengthen our relationship is second to none. It’s not hard to look back on our lives and wonder how different they might have been had we started working on the hard things earlier in life, and at the same time we are grateful to have Karla, Richard and WeDO Relationships today strengthening our relationship for tomorrow.

Olivia and Dirk M.

As a newly engaged couple, we have found WeDO relationships to be a meaningful addition to this exciting time of our lives. The content is engaging and approachable, allowing us to spend some structured time together in a low-pressure, low-stakes way. It has prompted healthy and vigorous conversations that allow us to explore topics that we might otherwise wait to tackle until we are in crisis down the road. WeDO Relationships feels like a tune-up for our partnership that we can revisit as it grows and evolves.

Jane and Scott B.

Karla, Richard and WeDO Relationships are the real deal, providing ‘best of’ experience, wisdom and coaching for anyone who wants a life-giving relationship. Scott and I are married 37 years and attended our first retreat (reluctantly) with them a decade ago. Now we participate in as many of Karla and Richard’s retreats, webinars and online programs as possible because each helps us grow as individuals and as a couple… and they’re always fun!  WeDO costs so little in time and money yet has yielded so much happiness, knowledge and love in return.

Tom and Rita D. 

Tom and I REALLY enjoyed the "Manage the Flood" series... It's just incredible, the level of yours and Richard's love, compassion and understanding, how it speaks to us and heals us at so many levels! And made us get in the work, having courageous conversations!


Mary Ellen W.

Their marriage and family has inspired me for years. Now they are sharing the wisdom and experience they’ve gained from many years of counseling couples in a format that is fun, engaging, and inclusive of ideas that are easy to remember to use in your own relationships!