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Emotional Fitness (On-line & Self Directed)

 Improve the relationship with your emotions

 Self-Directed - Private to you!
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In-Person Retreat

Married Couples Retreat - Danville CA

Feb 3-5 - 2023

When we celebrate our relationship, we give hope - we cherish a desire for a fulfilling relationship with anticipation.
What we focus on can expand. When we acknowledge what's right in our relationships we can grow the good stuff. Let's explore ways to go from good to extraordinary relationships simply by celebrating. Let the fun begin!
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Stay sharp on the most significant relationships in your life. Being the best version of yourself for the relationship takes ease and effort. Each month we share stories, insights and real life tools for your relationships to withstand adversity and thrive.
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Relationships in today's world require a new commitment...
“I’ll Take Care of Me for You, You Take Care of You for Me”
Fulfilling relationships require ease and effort. Each individual in the relationship is responsible for doing their own work (effort). Navigating our own mental health becomes a gift to the relationship (creates ease). 
Our programs offer mental health support online. Self-directed (private), affordable, easily accessible, while delivering actionable tools to maintain, enhance and/or course correct those relationships that may have gotten off track. You can make a difference in your significant relationships (even marriage :))
Karla and Richard 'The Obies'


Michele and Steve S.

Karla and Richard have been part of our lives, both as a couple and individually, for well over 15 years providing us with support and nourishment for our relationship to one another and those around us. The foundation of the WeDO Relationships is one of love, mindfulness and self-awareness and the toolbox available to us to strengthen our relationship is second to none. It’s not hard to look back on our lives and wonder how different they might have been had we started working on the hard things earlier in life, and at the same time we are grateful to have Karla, Richard and WeDO Relationships today strengthening our relationship for tomorrow.

Olivia and Dirk M.

As a newly engaged couple, we have found WeDO relationships to be a meaningful addition to this exciting time of our lives. The content is engaging and approachable, allowing us to spend some structured time together in a low-pressure, low-stakes way. It has prompted healthy and vigorous conversations that allow us to explore topics that we might otherwise wait to tackle until we are in crisis down the road. WeDO Relationships feels like a tune-up for our partnership that we can revisit as it grows and evolves.

Jane and Scott B.

Karla, Richard and WeDO Relationships are the real deal, providing ‘best of’ experience, wisdom and coaching for anyone who wants a life-giving relationship. Scott and I are married 37 years and attended our first retreat (reluctantly) with them a decade ago. Now we participate in as many of Karla and Richard’s retreats, webinars and online programs as possible because each helps us grow as individuals and as a couple… and they’re always fun!  WeDO costs so little in time and money yet has yielded so much happiness, knowledge and love in return.

Tom and Rita D. 

Tom and I REALLY enjoyed the "Mange the Flood" series... It's just incredible, the level of yours and Richard's love, compassion and understanding, how it speaks to us and heals us at so many levels! And made us get in the work, having courageous conversations!

Mary Ellen W.

Their marriage and family has inspired me for years. Now they are sharing the wisdom and experience they’ve gained from many years of counseling couples in a format that is fun, engaging, and inclusive of ideas that are easy to remember to use in your own relationships!